So, today is the day I have been waiting for a whole year for. News of my hubby coming home to be with is two best girls. I am totally in love and happy. I feel like a schoolgirl and I am filled with a quiet energy. There is so much to do between now and then, but none of it matters. The truth is nothing matters but having the man home safe and sound. That is all that will matter to him too. I am sure that anything is better than how he has been living. It is moderately clean, smells good, warm bed that doesn't poke him at night while he sleeps, no mortars, a fridge filled with the foods HE likes and wants, Taco Bell not too far down the street, a car to drive without worry of an IED, board shorts, flip flops, surf boards, and the ocean air ALL have to be better than how he has been living. I care about having some things ready for him, but I am not perfect now, nor will I ever be perfect, so why pretend by scrubbing floors and vacuuming corners? I will make the bed, with clean sheets, I will clean the bathrooms, and I will sweep the floors, but beyond that, I am opening my life and heart up again for the man of my dreams to walk through that door again. That is what I am most interested in preparing for...him...me...us. I love you, bebe. Come home alive and in one piece.
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Ataraxia
After the lights and screams and blood and placenta and the curiosity that settles in once you calm down, the lines start to blur. You find yourself on playgrounds, learning politics, warfare, and of course lust. You may eventually find your face bound to another's, find the true meaning of love, blind yourself with a collage of pleasure and pain, define your life by generally worthless experiences, etc. As you go you may find yourself more and more confused but please keep your hands and arms inside the vehicle at all times. You may find your hand fused to the gun, the bullet representing a single point traveling in a straight line through empty space, the extension of your far reaching power. Or at least your government's. The hand may become fused to a variety of instruments. The gun, the scalpel, the syringe, the pen, the book, the bottle, the cigarette, etc. Barring fire, water, the ever present cancer, gravity, action and reaction, and of course your spouse chasing after your life insurance policy, you will become old. You will become ugly. And then you will become dead. You could very well die today. Consider it every day that you are gifted to wake up and breathe, consider it in all its forms so that when your time ceases, it will not have been for nothing. You are born and there is morning. You live and there is daylight. And then before you wanted it to come twilight falls and evening is upon you. And then night is burning but now you can see the stars so clearly and in the 24th hour, your eyes become too heavy and you fall asleep. Every day you wake up, you are one day closer to waking up no more.
We expect to wake up though, expect to go to sleep, expect to continue our existence for as long as the sun rises. I would venture that only God is as faithful as the morning sun, and that seems like shaky ground but then again, sometimes the morning may prove to be cloudy. I’m just tired. And it’s never the job that wears me out; it’s me. I wear myself out, growing so very tired of me. I remember several years ago when I first moved from the left coast, I thought I missed the desert but the truth is, I just missed the open road. It was freedom, freedom to escape wherever I came from and whatever I was. I guess I was tired of me back then and it was watching the sun rise and set over the desert that helped. The sun rises and you get the chance to be reborn. The sun sets and you get your own quiet death of sorts, the chance to untangle your psycho screwed mind, drown your worries, blow your thoughts away. It goes just beyond time and our ability to measure it and the thought of it I suppose taps into something buried deep in our collective subconscious. Like a man that looks in the mirror and turns away only to forget what he really looks like, we don’t remember any particular one thought but rather the general nature of the thing. Maybe that’s how we understand God, just the general nature of the phenomenon. It’s better that we don’t remember so well, else we’d drown ourselves in memory. If you have children, kiss them gently before they fall asleep tonight and if you have someone you truly love, tell them to rest their feet and grow old with you. I can't and I'm tired now so I'm going to sleep. If all goes well I'll wake up in the morning. If not, deuces.
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11.9.09
Autobiography for Learning and Memory Psychology Class
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7.9.09
Boobs
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Shed a little light...
We replace charity with empathy and somehow think the two are equal. Also, we discuss matters we consider important with people who agree with us and believe we're somehow making a difference. Or, we think that our belief alone makes a difference. We often see no bigger picture than our own instincts. We criticize others for their beliefs, often asking insensitively deep questions of them without bothering trying to answer them for ourselves. Most of us choose to deal only in absolutes where we want to and when we don't want to then we quantify. That is not the road to truth. The road to truth lies in the willingness to accept anything, even if you do not like it. In much the same way, the greatest love demonstrated is given to one who hates the lover in return. This love is greater because it's given freely while knowing nothing will be given in return. We are ridiculously predictable and boring. Which has got to be why Jane Goodall went to live with the chimpanzees for quite some time. Monkeys flinging poo at each other was somehow more civilized. Yes, I was wondering why someone would do that and the rest of this post was the answer I came up with. Sue me.
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28.8.09
A paradox is normal if it doesn't happen often...
We've all got this idea of how we believe things should be, this dream perhaps of a better world than that which we live in. Maybe it's heaven foretold or maybe it's just the fading dreams of yesteryear, and there's nothing left but hell and oblivion. People seem torn between love and hate. Perhaps love makes the earth go around the sun in this dance and dervish of cosmic beauty, the pull that keeps us all just on the edge of living, that made the first human being look up at the stars and suddenly feel both overwhelmed and curious. Much as chaos exists, it exists because the universe is in flux; it is wild and untamed but beautiful nonetheless. Hate is us though. Ever since man first existed we have been sitting at the chess table, trying to figure out the best way to annihilate the other forever, though we loved each other once perhaps. George Washington Carver said to God "Mr. Creator, why did you make the peanut?" Then he made perfume, soap and a hundred other useful products. A scientist said "Chaos and Order, sacred laws of science, what of the atom?" Then he made the nuclear bomb. Contrary to all argument, true religion does not corrupt humanity but rather humanity has corrupted true religion. We were not made for hate but for love, if you believe we were made at all, and if so then it was love that pulled the first human being out of the earth and cooled all but the fire that burns still in the heart, love that made us free from our first breath. If you believe we were made. Nietzsche did not believe we were made and said that a living thing seeks above all to exert it's will. Life is the will to power, or something to that effect. So I suppose if you don't know what you believe then you've got options. Most don't know what they believe. I know this because the phrase "moral dilemma" is a common enough phrase to let me know that people can't make up their minds. So this mass idea of what should be isn't really a mass idea at all, just something nice for people to quote and preach on from time to time because we like nice things. I know I'm supposed to put the bottom line up front, but then it wouldn't be the bottom line, would it? So here's the bottom line, at the bottom where it very well should be: if I hear another song on the radio about changing the world sung by a pop icon who's songs normally float somewhere between pimping and killing, I'm going postal.
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